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Evangelism Made Personal
 Perspectives For Success In Evangelism
 Maintaining A Positive Attitude
 It is important to maintain certain perspectives while engaging in the
					enterprise we call "evangelism."  Many people start out with great
					enthusiasm, but often get discouraged and in some cases become
					apathetic.  This happens even to those who are highly skilled in
					teaching others.
 The problem is one that Zig Ziegler might call "stinkin' thinkin'."
					Armed with the wrong perspectives (or way of looking at things), many
					personal workers eventually lose heart.  Before long, evangelistic
					efforts dwindle and in some cases stop altogether.
 What follows are some perspectives that have helped me to keep a
					positive attitude about doing personal work.
 THE PROVIDENCE OF GOD IS AT WORK!
 In nearly every example of conversion found in the Book of Acts, God
					worked in some way to create the opportunity for the person to hear the
					gospel.  For example, Philip was sent toward Gaza where he would meet
					the Ethiopian Eunuch (Acts 8).  The Lord saw to it that Saul and
					Ananias would get together (Acts 9); likewise, that the household of
					Cornelius would have a chance to hear the gospel from Peter (Acts 10).
					The evangelization of Europe that started with the conversion of Lydia
					and the Philippian Jailor occurred after the "Macedonian Call" led Paul
					and his companions in that direction (Acts 16).
 Granted, these circumstances are in keeping with the miraculous events
					in establishing the Lord's church, but I believe they illustrate a
					principle that is just as valid for us today.  That principle is this:
					The Lord, who knows the hearts of all men and seeks those who are
					seeking Him (cf. 2Ch 16:9), will make sure that those who "hunger
					and thirst for  righteousness" will somehow be "filled" (Mt 5:6).
 This is where the "providence of God" comes in.  When the Lord knows
					there are people who would be receptive to the gospel (e.g., those in
					Corinth, Ac 18:9-11), He will "open doors" to give those who are
					seeking the truth the opportunity to be reached by those who are
					prepared to do the teaching.  It may not happen immediately, but I am
					persuaded that if there is someone who is "asking, seeking, and
					knocking" for the truth, the Lord will see to it that at some point in
					that person's life they will have an opportunity to hear the gospel.
 It encourages me to know that we are not alone in our efforts to lead
					the lost to Christ.  God will see that every soul who has an honest, 
					good, and seeking heart will one day come across someone who is 
					prepared to explain the Gospel to him or her.  Indeed, when we engage 
					in evangelism, we are "God's fellow workers" (1Co 3:5-9).
 Of course, how useful we can be to the Lord leads us to the second
					perspective for success in evangelism...
 GOD "OPENS DOORS" FOR PREPARED WORKERS!
 The Scriptures often speak of the Lord "opening doors" for His servants
					who are ready to serve Him.  Paul wrote about an "open door" of
					opportunity that prompted him to remain longer at Ephesus (1Co 16:9).
					He even wrote of one occasion where there was an "open door," but
					circumstances were such that he did not take advantage of it (2Co 2:12-13).
 From the Lord's remarks to the church in Philadelphia, we learn that
					the Lord opens doors for those people He can use (Re 3:8).  The
					implication regarding evangelism is this:  If we desire to be used by
					the Lord in His providence to reach those who are seeking the truth, 
					then we must prepare ourselves to be useful (cf. 2Ti 2:19-21)!
 The principle of preparation applies to both individuals and
					congregations.  Individuals must prepare themselves to be able to 
					teach, or to lead souls to those ready to teach.  But congregations 
					must also be ready to assimilate new converts into the family of God 
					where they can be nurtured and protected during a vital stage of their 
					newfound life.
 I fear that many congregations do not find "open doors" to reach others
					because they have not prepared themselves to be a place where "babes in 
					Christ" will be cared for properly.  Do we really believe that the Lord 
					through His "providence" would "open doors" for a congregation filled 
					with "carnal Christians" who would only devour the new Christian?  I 
					would not be surprised if the Lord often waits a long time before 
					providentially working to see that a truth seeker has an opportunity to 
					hear the gospel.  Of course, I would also understand that the Lord 
					would use His providence to spare that truth seeker's life until there 
					are people ready to teach and receive him or her into the family of 
					God.
 Whether the above is true, I believe the following point is both valid
					and encouraging:  If we will "prepare" ourselves to be useful to the 
					Lord, His providence will "open doors" of opportunity to reach those in 
					our community who have honest and good hearts that are seeking for the 
					truth.
 An important part of preparation involves another "perspective"...
 PRAYER IS THE "CATALYST" IN EVANGELISM!
 If the providence of God is at work and it involves the lives of those
					who are prepared to be used as well as those who are seeking the truth,
					it should be easy to see that prayer would play an important role.  In
					the conversion of Cornelius, it was his prayers that prompted God to
					take notice (Ac 10:1-4), and it was a man given to prayer that the
					Lord chose to use in order to reach him (Ac 10:9).
 I get the impression sometimes that much preparation for evangelism is
					not too different from preparing to make a sales pitch.  It is almost 
					as though people think that if you follow the right procedure with 
					anyone, the desired results must necessarily follow.  Now, I realize 
					that is no one's intention.  Yet I do find that prayer is not often 
					stressed in many books on "how to do evangelism."  In contrast, we find 
					Paul teaching the Colossians to pray that God would open a door for the 
					Word (Col 4:3).
 I like to think of prayer as a "catalyst," one that starts the process
					of God's providence in bringing together the lost but seeking soul with 
					the prepared and seeking servant of the Lord.   When we have prepared 
					ourselves to be useful to the Lord and then diligently pray "Lord, lead 
					me to some soul today,"  I am convinced that doors will open and we 
					will begin to find souls who themselves have been praying and who will 
					be receptive to the gospel!
 Now for some "perspectives" that are especially crucial to maintaining
					a high level of enthusiasm and persistence in evangelism.  From "THE
					PARABLE OF THE SOWER" and elsewhere in the Scriptures we can learn some
					more things that can help:
 - Remove the discouragement and prevent the apathy that paralyzes so
						many today
 - Instill enthusiasm in serving as laborers in the vineyard of the
						Lord!
 
 The parable itself is found in Lk 8:4-8, and the explanation is found
					in Lk 8:11-15 (please read).  The first principle we can glean from
					this parable is that...
 THE POWER IS IN THE SEED (WORD)!
 The "Word of God" has always been capable of influencing people,
					accomplishing its intended purpose (Isa 55:10-11).  As the author of
					Hebrews wrote, it is both "alive and powerful" (He 4:12).  This is
					especially true of the GOSPEL OF CHRIST, the "power of God unto
					salvation" (Ro 1:16).
 If people are going to be truly converted, it will not be through
					smooth speech or fancy presentations involving "hi-tech" equipment, but
					through the life-changing truth of the gospel.  We can certainly use 
					modern aids to present the gospel,  but we must make sure that they are 
					faithfully communicating the Word.
 True conversion (which involves a spiritual regeneration) will occur
					only if we plant the proper "seed."  Perhaps we don't get the desired 
					result, because we don't sow the right seed!
 But even when we plant the proper seed, we often do not see the desired
					results.  Understanding the reason why helps one to maintain the right 
					perspective...
 THE RESULTS DEPEND UPON THE TYPE OF SOIL!
 In the Parable of The Sower, we see that the same seed, when sown,
					produced different results.  One result was no reaction whatsoever.
					Two others had only temporary success.  Only one out of the four 
					resulted in bearing fruit!
 Where lies the blame?
 - Upon the SEED?  No!
 - Upon the SOWER?  No!
 - Upon the TYPE OF SOIL?  Yes!
 
 This illustrates where the area of responsibility lies.  The SOWER
					fulfills his responsibility by sowing the seed (Eze 3:17-19).  If
					the SOIL rejects the seed, the soil is responsible; the sower should
					not feel accountable (Mt 10:14-15; Ac 13:44-46).
 The positive implication is this:  Every time we sow the seed, we are
					successful!  If a person rejects it, we have not failed, they have!
 What is the significance of this perspective of evangelism?  We need to
					learn the JOY of sharing the Word for its own sake!  There is  joy in
					sharing Christ with others (we've got GOOD NEWS!), whether or not 
					people accept Him (we  are glad to serve our Lord in this way!).  Of 
					course, we are delighted when someone believes and truly accepts Jesus 
					as the Lord of their lives, but we should consider it as the "icing on 
					the cake."  Even if we don't experience the "icing," we can still enjoy 
					the "cake!"
 Another significance of this principle concerns our GOALS.  They should
					center on how many are being TAUGHT, NOT CONVERTED!  Too often, we make
					the number of baptisms (conversions) the measure of success or even
					faithfulness on the part of the teacher.  But even the most faithful
					teachers may find themselves in circumstances like JEREMIAH or JESUS, 
					where very few people gave heed to their message.  Shall we count them 
					failures?  Rather, let us  count them faithful, if they have faithfully 
					sowed the seed!
 Closely related to all this is the perspective concerning...
 THE PLACE OF THE SOWER
 As illustrated in the parable and elsewhere, we are simply "SEED-
					THROWERS" and "WATER-BOYS" (cf. 1Co 3:5-7).   One may plant the seed,
					another may water,  but it is GOD (through His Word in a receptive
					heart) Who gives the increase!  Because of this, there is no place for
					boasting about numbers of people being converted.
 But there is another significance to this.   God can even use "DEFECTIVE"
					seed-throwers (cf. Php 1:15-18).  Not only defective in MOTIVE (as seen in
					the text), but also in EXPERIENCE!  This is because the POWER is in the
					SEED, not the SOWER!
 Therefore we should not feel like we have to be an accomplished
					salesman to present the Gospel.  Even those who tremble and  may not be
					eloquent  can be used by the Lord to reach others (cf. 1Co 2:1-5).
 And then there is...
 THE PRINCIPLE OF SOWING AND REAPING
 In 2Co 9:6 we find this principle stated, and it easily seen in many
					different areas of life:
 - In SALES, the ratio of success is often one sale out of nine calls.
 - In ACTING, the ratio can be as high as one job out of thirty
						auditions, even for successful actors.
 - In THE PARABLE OF THE SOWER, only one out of four produced favorable
						results.
 
 Successful people in different walks of life understand that the key to
					success is to increase the number of their efforts.  The conclusion for
					us is obvious:  If we desire to REAP more, we must be willing to SOW 
					more!  Many people fail in the area of evangelism because they "sow 
					sparingly" and get discouraged by the meager results.
 If we increase the level of SOWING, the level of REAPING will rise
					proportionately.  But again, to avoid discouragement, we need to set
					goals on how many are being TAUGHT, not on how many are CONVERTED!
 Finally, one last perspective for success in evangelism...
 QUITE OFTEN, ONE SOWS AND ANOTHER REAPS!
 Winning souls involves both "sowing" and "reaping." Jesus used these
					terms in talking to His disciples as recorded in Jn 4:35-38.  Exactly
					what is the difference between "sowing" and "reaping?"
 Sowing is the work necessary to one day being able to reap!  In
					agriculture, sowing involves preparing the soil and planting the seed.
					In winning souls to Christ, sowing likewise involves preparation and
					planting:
 - In which the hearts are being prepared for the reception of the
						gospel
 - In which the hearts are first introduced to the gospel and its
						principles
 
 Reaping is the actual "harvesting" of what has been sown.  In
					agriculture, reaping is the collection of the fruits which have 
					produced by the sowing.  In winning souls, reaping is that harvesting 
					which occurs when souls who have had the Word planted in their hearts 
					decide to obey it!
 What is important to appreciate is the statement quoted by Jesus in
					Jn 4:37, "One sows and another reaps."  Those who sow do not always
					witness the reaping that may one day occur.  And many times those who
					reap are benefiting from the efforts of those who did the sowing before
					them.  In evangelism, this means that oftentimes you will be sowing the
					seed and it may appear that you are not getting any results.  But some
					time later those souls you were trying to reach may decide to finally 
					obey the gospel and another Christian may actually do the reaping in 
					your place!  Then again, there will be times when people just sort of 
					fall into your lap, ready and anxious to obey the gospel with little 
					effort on your part.  In this case, you are reaping what others have 
					sown!
 The point to keep in mind is that evangelism involves both "sowing" and
					reaping, and there will be times when what you sow will be reaped by
					someone else.  Let this be an encouragement to you when it appears that
					you are not reaping as you would hope.  You might actually be making it
					much easier for some brother or sister in the future!
 Conclusion
 An important element of success in personal work is perseverance.
					Those who persist in sowing the seed eventually bear fruit.  The
					problem with many people is wrong perspectives and negative attitudes.
					That translates into failure, no matter what the task is at hand.
 I hope that the perspectives shared above can help us maintain the
					positive attitude necessary to persevere until Harvest Time is no more!