Relationship

Go ahead; follow the directions on the picture! The rings move depending upon the relationship of your eyes to the graphic, and yes, it is weird. To me, it brings up an interesting point; that is, our relationship towards something affects how we perceive it. As a teen, if someone wanted to talk to me about the Bible, I might reply with something like: Don't talk to me about that religion junk, its all the same and I just don't want to hear it. Well, the truth is, I probably would have used words that I don't use anymore and with an attitude that would scare you. The good news is, I haven't talked like that in decades and Lord willing, never will again. How could I be like that as a teen and what changed me? Well, take a look at the following passage from the book of Corinthians and you just might have a clue:

2Co 4:1 Therefore, having this ministry by the mercy of God, we do not lose heart.
2Co 4:2 But we have renounced disgraceful, underhanded ways. We refuse to practice cunning or to tamper with God's word, but by the open statement of the truth we would commend ourselves to everyone's conscience in the sight of God.
2Co 4:3 And even if our gospel is veiled, it is veiled only to those who are perishing.
2Co 4:4 In their case the god of this world has blinded the minds of the unbelievers, to keep them from seeing the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God.
2Co 4:5 For what we proclaim is not ourselves, but Jesus Christ as Lord, with ourselves as your servants for Jesus' sake.
2Co 4:6 For God, who said, "Let light shine out of darkness," has shone in our hearts to give the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ.

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The answer is: I was just too wrapped up in myself to care about anybody or anything that didn't conform to what I wanted, when and how I wanted it. Once I was willing to stop the egocentric nonsense, my life changed. Then it changed again and again and kept on changing until this very day. When I step back and view my life as a whole, I can see that the change began when I changed my attitude about God and his relationship to me. Make no mistake, I am not perfect, but I do think about things from a different perspective and that perspective is based on a relationship with God through Jesus. Step back and consider your own relationship to God and I think you will see what I mean.

Genuine beauty

This is Farah Fawcett Majors, then and now. Time and illness have changed her appearance to be sure; but I can't help but wonder if she feels the same inside now as she did on the picture on the left. I posted this picture for one reason; namely for the married men out there who remember their spouse as she was when they married her. Age doesn't have to destroy beauty, because true beauty is found in the inner spiritual nature of a person. Consider this passage from the book of first Peter:

1Pe 3:1 Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives--
1Pe 3:2 when they see your respectful and pure conduct.
1Pe 3:3 Do not let your adorning be external--the braiding of hair, the wearing of gold, or the putting on of clothing--
1Pe 3:4 but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious.
1Pe 3:5 For this is how the holy women who hoped in God used to adorn themselves, by submitting to their husbands,
1Pe 3:6 as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord. And you are her children, if you do good and do not fear anything that is frightening.
1Pe 3:7 Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.

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Genuine beauty does not age because it is love personified; a love that goes beyond outward appearances and seeks the ultimate good of others at its own expense. This involves understanding, consideration, concern and a thousand other things I could never put into words, but I think you get the idea. Often it means submitting to the will of the other, but I assure you it is worth it. One more thing, if you show genuine love to those who have genuine beauty, both become stronger and just grow and grow and grow, to the point where you can't even imagine life without your loved one; and that is beautiful!