From Gary... Awkward

Most of the time, Christians greet one another with a friendly handshake.  Sometimes, though, you get that weak, limp handshake that is weird- and just makes you wonder about the other person.  Occasionally, though, the situation in the picture happens and both people feel uncomfortable.  Reality kicks in and you realize that the other party is viewing your relationship differently that you do, so you just deal with it.  But, it is still awkward.  Peter had a situation like this in Scripture and with none other than Jesus, himself....

John, Chapter 21

  1 After these things, Jesus revealed himself again to the disciples at the sea of Tiberias. He revealed himself this way.  2 Simon Peter, Thomas called Didymus, Nathanael of Cana in Galilee, and the sons of Zebedee, and two others of his disciples were together.  3 Simon Peter said to them, “I’m going fishing.” 

They told him, “We are also coming with you.” They immediately went out, and entered into the boat. That night, they caught nothing.  4 But when day had already come, Jesus stood on the beach, yet the disciples didn’t know that it was Jesus.  5 Jesus therefore said to them, “Children, have you anything to eat?” 

They answered him, “No.” 

  6  He said to them, “Cast the net on the right side of the boat, and you will find some.” 

They cast it therefore, and now they weren’t able to draw it in for the multitude of fish.  7 That disciple therefore whom Jesus loved said to Peter, “It’s the Lord!” 

So when Simon Peter heard that it was the Lord, he wrapped his coat around him (for he was naked), and threw himself into the sea.  8 But the other disciples came in the little boat (for they were not far from the land, but about two hundred cubits away), dragging the net full of fish.  9 So when they got out on the land, they saw a fire of coals there, and fish laid on it, and bread.  10 Jesus said to them, “Bring some of the fish which you have just caught.” 

  11  Simon Peter went up, and drew the net to land, full of great fish, one hundred fifty-three; and even though there were so many, the net wasn’t torn. 
  12  Jesus said to them, “Come and eat breakfast.” 

None of the disciples dared inquire of him, “Who are you?” knowing that it was the Lord. 

  13  Then Jesus came and took the bread, gave it to them, and the fish likewise.  14 This is now the third time that Jesus was revealed to his disciples, after he had risen from the dead.  15 So when they had eaten their breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon, son of Jonah, do you love me more than these?” 

He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I have affection for you.” 

He said to him, “Feed my lambs.”   16 He said to him again a second time, “Simon, son of Jonah, do you love me?” 

He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I have affection for you.” 

He said to him, “Tend my sheep.”   17 He said to him the third time, “Simon, son of Jonah, do you have affection for me?” 

Peter was grieved because he asked him the third time, “Do you have affection for me?” He said to him, “Lord, you know everything. You know that I have affection for you.” 

Jesus said to him, “Feed my sheep.

Jesus had risen from the dead (Chapter 20) and now appears to the disciples again.  This time the disciples have returned to their occupation of fishing.  Jesus instructs them how to be successful, but is unknown to them (why, not sure- maybe he was just too far away???).  But, John, finally recognizes Jesus, and they do what they are told and have a bountiful catch.  Once they return to  land, Jesus beckons them to eat with him and then the awkwardness begins...  Jesus asks Peter if he loves HIM more than THESE.  Question: to what does the "these" refer to?  Doesn't really say, does it?  However, from the context, I think he is talking about the fish they caught, whereas Jesus is referring to people.  But, I could be wrong about this one- it just seems a little vague to me and the fish reference makes the most sense.  Anyway, in the ensuing exchange, Jesus is referring to the highest form of self-sacrificing love, and Peter (Simon, son of Jonah) is talking about friendship.  A bit awkward for Peter isn't it?  But, to me the ultimate message to Peter- stop fishing and feed my sheep (people).  Just goes to show you- we tend to just "like" and God tends to just "love".  Jesus always seems to go a bit farther than most of us are willing to go.  Peter needed to learn self-sacrificing love and we need to go beyond a handshake with others and get more involved in their lives.  While this may seem difficult or awkward at first, we need to change, just like Peter did.  After all, there is that thing--   Jesus said to him, “Feed my sheep!!!  Humm, this is one different kind of a fish story, isn't it???