March 20, 2013

From Gary V. Womack...HEADSHIP OF THE HUSBAND



HEADSHIP OF THE HUSBAND


Eph. 5:22-24 The husband is the head of the wife.

GOD'S DESIGN FOR ORDER IN MARRIAGE.
In no organization can everyone be "in charge" - otherwise disorder results

GOD'S "PECKING ORDER" IN LIFE.

1 Cor. 11:3 "But I want you to know that the head of every man is Christ, the head of woman is man, and the head of Christ is God."

Eph. 5:23 HUSBAND IS THE HEAD OF HIS WIFE..... Not "the BOSS"

(someone once said, "Give a man an inch, and suddenly he thinks he's a ruler")

JESUS' APOSTLES CONFUSED POWER WITH AUTHORITY

Mt. 20:20-28 A desire for authority in order to RULE - or to SERVE?

1 Pet. 5:1-4 Elders are to LEAD as servants - not LORDS over the flock.

SOME HUSBANDS THINK OF A WIFE AS THEIR SERVANT.

vs. 28 ...as Christ came to SERVE - not to BE SERVED.

.....AS CHRIST IS HEAD OF THE CHURCH. (Eph. 5:23)

PART OF THE RESPONSIBILITY OF HEADSHIP IS TO LOVE OUR WIFE.

Eph. 5:25-29 Love of Christ involved "sanctifying" and "purifyingas a husband "nourishes" and "cherishes"

SOME YOUNG HUSBANDS SAY, "I DO THAT. I EARN A LIVING."

1 Tim. 5:8 "But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an        unbeliever."

HUSBAND TO PROVIDE FOR PHYSICAL NEEDS - TRUE, BUT WHAT ABOUT SPIRITUAL NEEDS?

As Christ would "present to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that it should be holy and without blemish."

SO HUSBANDS SHOULD LEAD THEIR WIVES IN SPIRITUAL PURITY.

2 Tim. 2:15 "Be diligent (study, kvv) to present yourself approved to God, a worker who does not need to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of
truth."

ALL, BOTH MEN & WOMEN, HAVE THIS PRIVILEGE & RESPONSIBILITY

But the husband has a responsibility to lead his family in spiritual matters.

This does not make the husband the mediator between his wife & God

1 Tim. 2:5 "For there is one God and one Mediator between God and men, the Man Christ Jesus."

Paul alludes to this responsibility of husbands in his letter to Corinth:

1 Cor. 14:34-35 "Let your women keep silent in the churches, for they are not permitted to speak; but they are to be submissive, as the law also says. [35] and if they want to learn anything, let them ask their own husbands at home; for it is shameful for women to speak in church."

THE HUSBAND IS TO BE THE HEAD OF HIS FAMILY & LEAD HIS FAMILY AS THE SPIRITUAL LEADER IN THE HOME.

FOR MEN TO BECOME ELDERS & DEACONS, THEY MUST LEARN TO BE SPIRITUAL LEADERS IN THEIR HOMES.

1 Tim. 3:4-5, 12 "...one who rules his own house well...


INVITATION

March 19, 2013

From Gary... DANGER



DANGER



Song: LEANING ON THE EVERLASTING ARMS

Scripture Reading: Psalm  3



I. INTRODUCTION

A. Lions and tigers and bears... OH MY!

B. Lets consider danger (opposition) (situations in which 
     we are powerless..examples)

C. Look at the PSALMIST... Psalm 3



II. BODY

A. OUR DANGER IS REAL 1-2

1. Democratic process is not always the correct way.

2. Don't believe but 1/2 of what you see and NOTHING 
    of what you hear.

3. Don't believe those going down the wide road.
    (majority)


B. OUR DEFENSE IS STRONG 3-4

1. A sheild, a LORD, a defense a glory.

2. A strength in time of need.


C. OUR DEPENDANCE UPON GOD IS OUR REST (FROM WORRY) 5-6

1. Rest is in GOD!

2. Realize the true power of numbers... "Gerhazzi"


D. OUR DELIVERANCE IS IN GOD 7-8

1. Call on him.

2. Consider him.

3. Confront wickedness STRONGLY!

4. Care for his own.


III. CONCLUSION

A. Danger is "real", but not as real as God

B. Do not worry, call on God!

C. Do realize you aren't alone--- many have trod the 
    road of faith more rocky than yours.

From Gary V. Womack... Giving To God's Glory



Giving To God's Glory

Scripture reading - Gen. 22:1-2

The account of Abraham's sacrifice of Isaac is a demonstration of FAITH

Gen. 22:3-8 "Where is the sacrificial lamb?" - "God will provide"

Heb. 11:1 "Now faith is the substance of things hoped for the evidence of things not seen."
+ Faith looks ahead to the future in hope - and acts in the present with trust

Abraham trusted God by acted in faith - by looking ahead with hope

This is how we are tested: Faith put to the test by exercising trust

Heb. 11:17-19 "By faith Abraham, when he was tested, offered up Isaac, and he who had received the promises offered up his only begotten son. (18) of whom it was said, 'In Isaac your seed shall be called,' (19) concluding that God was able to raise him up, even from the dead, from which he also received him in a figurative sense."

Jas. 2:14-24 "faith was working together with his works, and by works faith was made perfect."

Our faith is meaningless unless it is backed by works.

+ Our faith remains unproved until tested by the challenge of the unknown

AN APPEAL TO MEET A NEED

1 Cor. 16:1-3 "Now concerning the collection for the saints, as I have given orders to the churches of Galatia, so you must do also: (2) On the first day of the week let each one of you lay something aside, storing up as he may prosper, that there be no collections when I come. (3) And when I come, whomever you approve by your letters I will send to bear your gift to Jerusalem."

Their challenge is our example - giving to meet a specific need.

2 Cor. 9:1-5 An admonition to carry out their good intentions

vss. 6-11 God is able to supply you with what you need to meet others' need

vs. 15 "Thanks be to God for His indescribable gift!"

Couldn't God simply supply the need directly to Jerusalem? Yes!
Then why bless the Corinthians so they could meet the need?
2 Cor. 8:1-9 It was a test of the genuineness of their faith

+ Also, God is glorified through our work of our faith as a result of His grace

Eph. 2:8-10 "For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, (9) not of works, lest anyone should boast. (10) For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them."

+ Faith is not of works - Works are of faith
Therefore, God is glorified in our doing that which He made us for - works

Abraham passed his test - He did not withhold from God.
Gen. 22:9-12 "...now I know that you fear God"




INVITATION

Has your giving been tested? Does God know that you fear Him?

Mt. 16:24-26 Are you willing to deny yourself? What will you give up?

March 18, 2013

From Gary... Optimism


OPTIMISM

Bible Reading:  Rom 8:28

Song:  Nearer my God to thee


I. Introduction

A. This country was built on optimism; the examples 
     are numerous!!

B. The essence of optimism: insight with confidence. 
    (FAITH)

C. The application of optimism : action.

D. The example of optimism: Caleb.

E. The life of Caleb summarizes optimism !


II. Body

A. His optimism is seen in his view of the promised 
     land. Nu 13:1-33

1. The reality of it.. WOW !!!

2. The reality of the obstacles: 
     Anankin, Hittives, Amorites, Jebusites.

3. The reason for the positive recommendation: GOD !!


B. His optimism led to faithfulness, so he could 
    enter the promised land. Josh 14:6-15

1. Caleb made it here; many, many didn't even come 
    close. Matt 7:21

2. Caleb was no worse the wear for being faithful all 
    those years,

3. Caleb was still optimistic; chose the hardest portion 
    to conquer.


C. His optimism led to success. Josh 15: 13-16

1. His optimism ignored fear.

2. His optimism did something.

3. His optimism was contagious. vs 16


D. His optimism has lessons for us.

1. Trusting God has its rewards.

2. Trusting God fully is faithfulness.

3. Trusting God enough to take on the BIG tasks.



III. Conclusion

A. Caleb's optimism is an example of the kind of FAITH 
     we must have.

B. Caleb's optimism overcame pride -- 
    He overcame the sidekick role.

C. Caleb's optimism should be our optimism!

From Gary V. Womack... Esther




ESTHER

Ahasuerus (Xerxes) Reigned from India to Ethiopia at Shushan (Susa) during the reign of the Persian Empire (Dan. 2:36-39)

Esther 1:1-9

He threw a lavish party for 180 days (3 months)
Followed by a 7 day feast.

Esther 1:11

On the 7th. day, the king summoned Queen Vashti to appear "in order to show her beauty to the people and the officials."

HE WAS PREOCCUPIED WITH WOMEN AND THEIR BEAUTY

She refused, so the king put her away as queen,
never to appear before him again.

Esther 2:2-4

The king's servant suggests rounding up all the beautiful virgins in the kingdom
A beauty pageant of young women to be brought before the king to choose from.

Esther 2:5-7

We are introduced to Mordecai (A Benjamite & grandson of Kish)
of royal descent:

1 Sam. 9:1-2 Kish was the father of King Saul

Mordacai reared his cousin, Esther (Hadassah), as his own daughter. for she was orphaned.

Esther 2:12-14

A deplorable arrangement. A new woman for the king each night!

Esther 2:8-11

The king favored Esther - But she did not reveal her Jewish heritage as being of the Jewish captives.

NO WONDER MORDECAI PACED THE FLOOR in his concern for her.

Esther 2:21-ff

Mordecai warns Esther of a plot to kill the king, who in turn tells the king in Mordecai's name. The result: 2 guilty eunuchs were put to death.

Esther 3:1-6

We are introduced to Haman (An Agagite)

1 Sam. 15:1-2, 9 Agag was the king spared of the Amalekites whom Saul and the people failed to utterly destroy per God's instructions.

See how disobedience effects future events?

The king advanced Haman to be head over his princes. Because Mordecai refused to bow to Haman - Haman devised a plan to kill all Jews.

Esther 3:8-11

Haman offers 10,000 pieces of silver to the king's treasury for the purpose of payment to those who would destroy all the Jews.

Esther 3:12-ff

In one day, the plan was determined to exterminate all Jews. Does this remind us of Hitler's efforts under the German third Reich?

Esther 4:1-3

Mordecai and all Jews MOURNED in sack cloth and ashes.

Esther 4:5-9

Mordecai sends word to Esther about what is happening and asks her to go to the king and plead for her people.

Esther 4:10-12

Esther's reply: "If I do this, I will be put to death." Her initial concern was for herself rather than her people.

HER HOUR HAD COME. WHAT WOULD SHE DO?
It has been said that "Everyone has their 15 minutes of fame."
What would you do in your hour?

WHO WOULD YOU GLORIFY - Yourself or God?
Jesus, in His hour gave up Himself in order to glorify the Father.

Jn. 12:23-27 (Jesus) "The hour has come that the Son of Man should be glorified. (24) Most assuredly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the ground and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it produces much grain. (25) He who loves his life will lose it, and he who hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life. (26) If anyone serves Me, let him follow Me; and where I am, there My servant will be also. If anyone serves Me, him My Father will honor. (27) Now My soul is troubled, and what shall I say? 'Father, save Me from this hour?' But for this purpose I came to this hour. (28) Father, glorify Your name...."

Esther 4:13-14

Mordecai's response: "You will die anyway!"

We are going to lose our life, either way we turn. Which way will you go?

Mt. 10:38-39 (Jesus) "And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. (39) He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it."

"But if you keep silent, God will provide deliverance from another source."

MORDECAI'S FAITH WAS ROOTED IN GOD'S ABILITY TO DELIVER
Is our faith rooted in God?

When temptation comes, will we look for deliverance?

1 Cor. 10:13 "No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it."

Do we know as Mordecai did, that God is the source of every blessing?

Jas. 1:17 "Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and comes down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow of turning."

Do we believe as Mordecai did, that God's greatest interest is His people?

Rom. 8:28 "And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose."

Esther 4:14

"Yet who knows whether you have come for such a time as this?"

Who knows what great purpose God may have for us? And how will we recognize it when it comes? It might not seem great at the time.
Did Rahab know that her great moment would be to protect the lives of 2 men by hiding the spies on the roof of her house and helping them to escape over the wall of Jericho? (Josh. 2)

Heb. 11:31 "By faith the harlot Rahab did not perish with those who did not believe, when she had received the spies with peace."

Mary, (sister to Lazarus and Martha), claimed fame when she anointed Jesus. (Jn. 12:3 identifies her as Mary) It didn't seem so great to those around her. Mk. 14:3-9 Criticized for her good work, she did what she could & is remembered.

Esther 4:15-ff

Esther's reply: "Pray & fast for me for 3 days and nights."

"I will go to the king, which is against the law; and if I perish, I perish!"

WE MUST LOVE ONE ANOTHER IN THIS SAME WAY

Jn. 15:12-13 (Jesus speaking to His disciples) "This is My commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. (13) Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one's life for his friends."

Rom. 5:6-8 "For when we were still without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. (7) For scarcely for a righteous man will one die; yet perhaps for a good man someone would even dare to die. (8) But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us."


This is how we are to love one another. We are living our moment now.
How will we respond when opportunity to serve presents itself?

1 Pet. 1:22-23 "Since you have purified your souls in obeying the truth through the Spirit in sincere love of the brethren, love one another fervently with a pure heart, (23) having been born again, not of corruptible seed but incorruptible, through the word of God which lives and abides forever."

INVITATION

God has provided our way of escape from eternal death. This might be your moment to choose life or death.

Heb. 2:1-9 "How shall we escape if we neglect so great a salvation?"